Fashion's night out

RIP DJ AM

WOW... Yeah... here I am once again sitting in complete shock. Some crazy final destination shit. When you have to go you have to go, right? I wish death was an easy thing to take , but unfortunately it's not. DJ AM was a great DJ and I am glad I got to experience his work once in my life time. I called it my Best DJ moment. I have the worst memory, especially when it comes to a DJ playing a set. I am sure I wasn't the only one that remembers "smack your bitch up... and live your life eheh eheh eheh" that night in February @ Mansion NYC , right around the whole Rihanna and Chris Brown Drama. I went Crazy! 'Til this day every time I here either song , I think of the other one right away. That is what I call awesome work! He had Mansion dancing non stop like a DJ is supposed to. It's a moment I will never forget . I feel like heaven is having a party with all these talented people leaving the world. One lesson from all of those who we have lost is : Life is too short... Live your dream.
This news immediately put me into deep thoughts. How many of us are living our dreams? I know I mentioned this before and i'll mention it again. It makes me sad when some friends of mine tell me "I wish I could be more like you and do what I want to do." I keep telling them "im just doing what makes me happy, and you can do the same too. Life is too short to be miserable." But they don't go through with it and and stay miserable. I learned from a young age , from loosing young people close to me in such a short period of time, that death does not discriminate. You're here today and gone tomorrow... how sad would it be if you never attempted to follow your dreams? Think about this .
All of these people that have been passing this summer all had a chance to live their dreams and they went for it. Sad that they are no longer part of this world but they will always live on in all of our hearts because they followed their dreams and were able to expose their out of this world talent. I am a true believer that everyone has a talent of their own. It takes passion to bring it out. Look inside you. What are you passionate about? Take your passion and work from there toward your dreams... I don't want to hear that you can't anymore.

F A B O L O U S

Purchased the Loso's Way album last week and been listening to it on repeat. Love it! Even Loved it more when a friend of mine hooked it up to go to the concert @ santos!!! Thanks Friend :o). Highlight of the night: Fabolous almost killing me and my friend with a T-shirt. hahaha.

Question in my mind :

Lately I have been bothered more than usual by those that can not be alone. They are in a relationship as soon as the last one ends, not giving themselves time to get to know themselves. That's when I asked myself: Would I rather be the girl that ALWAYS has a boyfriend , or the girl that is ALWAYS single? I also asked my social network, here are a few answers from Twitter and Facebook:

"I would just rather be happy, even if that meant being single. More important to take good care of yourself because in the end you are all you have!"

"I rather have a man by my side that loves me no matter what, will teach me something new everyday, will always be a rock for me when i'm down, will be the friend I never knew I could have, will be all I wanted in me and more to me in my own eyes... coming home to that man, eating dinner, and waking up to that man, those are the happiest moments I remember feeling full of life. my heart always felt love"

"Single because you dont have to worry about anyone or worry about wasting your money lol so you save hahaaa!"

"Mejor sola que mal acompanda... At least I'll have my options open."

"Single baby....... i surely miss my single life :( para andar atras de lo pepe, pepeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!"

"Single but is always nice to have some1 : )"

"neither! how about single and dating a few."

"are those the only two options? Lol... I'd rather be the girl that just is/ has ... Love."

" a girl that's always single but has people to fool around with ;-) yeah I said it...lets keep this real people!"

"I would rather be the girl that is always single!!

Here are a couple of answers from guys:

"Always single ... bcuz gals that always hv bf's need a man to validate themselves and that's not wassup atleast to me !And its usually self esteem or Daddy issues !!"

"Both types have incredible issues for the fact that they ALWAYS have to have either."

My Thoughts:

I rather be the girl that is always single. If you can't be alone at all , you're not loving yourself as much as you're supposed to. You need to love yourself in excess so that you have extra love to give to someone else when you are ready.

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Currently reading : The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

As I was walking aimlessly around the city again , I checked my tweet and realized my friend was only a few blocks away looking for a Barnes and Noble. I called her up and we took the trip together. In her hand she had The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene and was looking for The Art of Seduction, also by Robert Greene. "It's a great book, you have to read it," she said, refering to The 48 Laws of Power. I picked up The Art of Seduction from the bookcase and read the 1st page of the preface. I immediately decided that I MUST read the book. A day later ... I can't seem to put it down. I wish I were actually reading it right now but unfortunately I have too much work to do. Don't be fooled by the word Seduction . This book is def not only about seducing a man/woman , its about seducing society and learning history as well. I will keep you posted on my thoughts on The Art of Seduction as I read through it during the next few days. I have a feeling I'll be done in a week and a half the most :O). It takes me FOREVER to read books since I ussually dont have the time or they aren't too interesting . Have you read The Art of Seduction? If So , What are your thoughts... feel free to comment :O)

Up date :

I must admit I have not been giving the Buzygurl blog my all. I have been doing an half- assed job and that is not what I shouldbe doing. I must go hard or go home. That is my new motto. GO HARD OR GO HOME. I am tired of being discouraged because of other's opinions about me and my projects. I am teaching myself to not care. The truth is that those people do not do anything for me except clog my aura with the negative vibes I have been trying to keep away. I feel like a lot of you out there should do the same. If we don't go hard towards our goals, who else is going to do it for us? life is only one, we must do as we please, as long as its possitive.

I have been doing a lot of thinking , and I feel as if some of those thoughts should be placed on my blog. I want to help you out and I want to help myself out. I want this blog to be an inspiration to anyone who doesn't believe they can make it. If I make it, you can definately make it. Of course there is always a struggle and it is not easy to make it to where you want to be in life. All those people that are making it look easy are just fooling themselves. It takes hard work to create something awesome, especially and awesome life. That is my goal. To create what I believe is an awesome life for myself while being an inspiration to a lot of you.
Within the next couple of weeks, you will come to see changes on www.buzygurl.com. Not only will I be blogging about fashion , music and events . I will also be blogging about life in general. I am going to keep it as positive as I can. There is going to be a lot more book reading and reflecting. I have decided as of last Friday that I will only read books that will teach me something. Novels don't do that for me. Therefore I will read books on philosophy.
This may sound crazy , but I feel like my calling is to make a difference in this world. To teach people that by thinking positive you attract possitive. If you somehow attract negative, you need to turn it into a possitive. The world will be a better place if a whole lot of us thought the same way. So yeah, welcome to my journey...